Timothy Lee Durr, Jr.

1981 ∼ 2025

Timothy Lee Durr, Jr.

Dr. Timothy Lee Durr, Jr. A husband. A father. A son.

October 5, 1981 – September 12, 2025

Timothy was born in Woodville, Texas, to Denese and Timothy Durr, Sr. He was a dentist by trade and a maker by nature — a musician, martial artist, carpenter, electrician, and whatever else the moment required him to be. Tim could turn his hands to anything, and he did it with care.

Tim lived with depression for many years and worked hard to carry that weight quietly. He was ultimately overwhelmed by his depression and alcohol use on the morning of September 12, 2025. He is now more at peace than he ever would have been alive. He is survived by his wife, Abigail “Abby” Durr, whom he worshiped, and their five children: Bradley Durr, Marci McNulty and her husband Devin, Maddox Durr, Miles Durr, and Isabelle “Babers” Durr; his granddaughter Violet McNulty; his parents Denese and Timothy Sr.; and his beloved dog, Rufus Gilbert Durr.

Tim graduated from the University of Texas School of Dentistry in 2013 and built a career not only with skill, but with compassion. He was treasured by his staff and patients as “Doc Durr”. He often provided pro-bono dental work for people in need, often citing his creed, “Money doesn’t rule me, my heart does”. Earlier in life, he taught high school chemistry. Though he only taught for a single year, his students never forgot him, still reaching out to him nearly twenty years later.

Tim will be remembered for his devotion to family, his humor, his creativity, and his deep empathy. He stood up for outsiders and misfits. He loved music in every way a person could — writing it, playing it, and feeling it. He built things: songs and poems, drawings and guitars, a halfpipe, and a life for his family. He taught discipline and restraint on the mats, gentleness in the chair, and loyalty everywhere.

Above all, Tim showed love in his own ways. He protected his children fiercely and made sure they knew it. His legacy is the sound of their laughter, the craft in their hands, and the courage to be different.

A memorial service will be held on Thursday, September 18 at 3939 Turtle Creek Dr, Port Arthur, TX 77642 beginning at 5:00 PM.

Condolences

Deidra Bell October 28, 2025
So sorry for the loss of an a wonderful soul may the Lord keep in his arms , you are at rest now 🙏🙏🙏 Yes he showed everyone his grandaughter picture's and his daughter so much love ❤️ he had so much for them 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Yvette Garrett October 28, 2025
May you be at Peace with the Lord.
Adrienne Ryherd Dishma October 9, 2025
Adrienne Ryherd Dishma purchased Eco-Friendly Memorial Trees for Timothy Durr, Jr.
Tyler October 4, 2025
Tim made me change my view of dentist. Only seen him a few times but everytime was like seeing a ball of joy. Always had good conversations
Charla Miller October 1, 2025
I'm so sorry to hear this. He was a very kind and compassionate Dentist. The last appointment I had with him, he came in and said, "Well, before I can get started I have to show you my beautiful granddaughter" and she was. He was so proud. I think he probably showed them to everyone. God bless and comfort his family!
DeAnn Smith September 19, 2025
I’ll always remember you as my baby cousin who loved his snakes and knew everything there was to know about monsters aka monksters. Love you!
Wendy Collins September 18, 2025
A beautiful light has gone out at the source but continues to shine through his wife, his children and everyone who loved him. God's blessings on y'all. Remembering keeps him alive.
Chloe Milstead September 18, 2025
I never got to meet you and I’m sorry that I didn’t but you gave me my Marci and I couldn’t be more grateful for the love and friendship that we have built that would’ve never been possible without you. Thank you for giving this world someone as wonderful as Marci is. rest in peace ❤️
Miranda Millwood September 18, 2025
Marci, My heart is with you during this difficult time. I did not know your dad, but if he is anything like you, then he is a great man! I am praying for your healing (and of course the rest of your family). Sending love and hugs to you. He is at rest now, and healed from his pain. Love you!! Miranda
Patricia Paniagua September 17, 2025
You actually were the reason I loved and understood chemistry in High school. You were the cool teacher for sure. Still remember the time Mr. Franzen walked in and took up someone’s phone. You kept teaching and once he stepped out, we all started laughing and you said. Man I can’t believe you didn’t see him come in lol. Thank you for the wonderful memories and may God have you in his Glory. Prayers for you and your family ✝️🙏🏼
Amber Danks September 16, 2025
Abby and family, I am so very sorry for your loss… My heart goes out to each of you and you will all be in my prayers. Rest in peace Tim 💙
Devin McNulty September 16, 2025
Doc, I'll never forget our many conversations sitting and discussing the ways of the world. We didn't always agree, but thank you for your constance and your candor. I hope one day we can continue our banter anew. I'd like to hear, "I should know, I'm a doctor" again.
Bradley Durr September 16, 2025
I can’t even begin to pick a memory that’s my favorite. All I can remember is how Dad made me feel. He made me feel like I was invincible. He made me feel loved like no other. I was always safe with my Dad. He knew what to do no what the situation. I always knew someone was in my corner.
Marci Durr September 16, 2025
I don’t want to live this life without you dad. I wish I could die so you can hold me again. This world means nothing to me without you. Every memory of you is my favorite. But right now I’m thinking about winter 2020. When you’d barge into my room like we were best friends and say random crap and share so many laughs. Then we’d go on drives and you taught me how to drive by driving to the same gas station every night and showing me music. I love you dad. I don’t want to wait until I’m an old woman to meet you again.
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location_on Simple Tributes, 3939 Turtle Creek Drive, Port Arthur, TX, 77642
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schedule Thursday, September 18, 2025 at 5:00 PM